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Old 04-28-2007, 04:31 PM
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Default Pregnant and Alone! So Scared

I'm in desperate need for some help and support. Here is my messy story:
I am 22 and I have been with my then Fiance for a year (engaged for 3 months) and I conceived on our Year anniversary! We have been trying for our child 7 months before finally getting it right. We both wanted this child so bad! Here's where it gets messy. He is still married and always promised me a divorce as soon as his 1 year seperation was over. I patiently waited 6 months for what I was promised finally I got fed up and moved back home only to find 2 weeks after I moved back to my hometown, I was pregnant! Full of happiness, sadness, you name the emotion, I thought this was it, and he would finally get it done and over with.
I am now home, living with my parents, and he moved in his wife into our home in the other town. I don't know where to go or what to do. I'm pregnant with the baby we worked so hard to conceive and he got back together with his wife!!!
Help me! I need someone to talk to and tell me how I am going to make it through. I am 15 weeks pregnant now. I found out at exactly 4 weeks.
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Old 04-28-2007, 05:25 PM
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Its real tough being a single mom, but once you hold your little darling in your arms, it will all be worth it. I've enjoyed every moment since my daughter's been born, no matter how tough it got. I don't need a guy around to help me raise her and you don't either! You'll be so much stronger than you ever thought you could be.

What a jerk he was. Good thing you didn't marry him!

I'm here to listen if you need to talk.
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Old 04-28-2007, 10:27 PM
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Mandabear,

you have all the friends and family here at home that will help you with whatever you need. Im here for you as well, and so are all the other wonderfil ladies on this fourm!

Like I've told you before, Chris isn't the greatest thing for you. You needed out of that relationship because he treated you like crap! The day I heard you were comming home I was so proudd of you!! You dont need Chris to be there for you, the child is better off just with his/her mommie!

If he decided to go back with his wife thats their problem, as you told me their marriage was crap too! Its not your fault at all, remember that!
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Old 04-28-2007, 10:32 PM
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Thanks so much. It just seems like I cant find the good in anything right now.
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Old 04-28-2007, 10:36 PM
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come over sometime whn I get back and Lukey will make u feel all good inside
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Old 04-28-2007, 10:37 PM
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That would be nice Danielle... We can just hang and vent on a day bobby has night shift....
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Old 04-28-2007, 10:40 PM
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that would be awesome.. IM GAME!!!!

but beware.. Im a sucker for rubbing preggy bellies!!!
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Old 04-28-2007, 10:47 PM
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Oh dear, Im not showing that much, you know that. I just look like I gained 10lbs in the stomach. Its not even a cute baby bump yet!
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Old 05-01-2007, 12:51 AM
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its totally cute!! Im already in love with it!!!
and by the time you come out and see us youll be bigger... trust me.. its like you grow overnight
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Old 05-07-2007, 01:04 PM
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Oh, honey!
I kinda know what your going through, although my situation isn't that messy
I have been with my fiancee for over two years and I got pregnant with my first son. We lost him when I was 17 weeks pregnant. Me and my fiancee were devastated. I got pregnant with my second son, Gage, about two months after losing my first. My fiancee, Michael, told me he would be there for the baby's birth and all those promises. But when I was 4, almost 5, months pregnant, he went to prison and got sentenced for 3 years! He missed his son's birth and all the neat little things he does. He won't be home until after Gage is fourteen months old! I know what your going through and it is scary, but like everyone else has said, once you hold that baby in your arms, everything you've ever felt, any anger you've ever had, just melts away! I didn't think that it was true, but once I held my son, it was!
NO ONE needs a man to help them take care of a baby. If we can go through labor, taking care of a child should be no problem, right? That guy will realize what he missed soon enough and then he should come crawling back!
We're here if you need to talk to someone!
HUGZ!!
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