Oh, honey!
I kinda know what your going through, although my situation isn't that messy
I have been with my fiancee for over two years and I got pregnant with my first son. We lost him when I was 17 weeks pregnant. Me and my fiancee were devastated. I got pregnant with my second son, Gage, about two months after losing my first. My fiancee, Michael, told me he would be there for the baby's birth and all those promises. But when I was 4, almost 5, months pregnant, he went to prison and got sentenced for 3 years! He missed his son's birth and all the neat little things he does. He won't be home until after Gage is fourteen months old! I know what your going through and it is scary, but like everyone else has said, once you hold that baby in your arms, everything you've ever felt, any anger you've ever had, just melts away! I didn't think that it was true, but once I held my son, it was!
NO ONE needs a man to help them take care of a baby. If we can go through labor, taking care of a child should be no problem, right? That guy will realize what he missed soon enough and then he should come crawling back!
We're here if you need to talk to someone!
HUGZ!!
