[makingdreams]

I'm new to this board and I have a few questions, I hope I'm posting this in the right place. I'm working with an agency and I have found the perfect couple to adopt these babies and all is going well, my question is am I weird for wanting the adoptive parents to help with clothes after the birth? I also feel like if I take money or any other items before birth it would be like selling the babies rather than them adopting the babies, the agency that I'm working with says it normal wants all the paperwork is started and confirmed for them to help the birth mom with bill,clothes,and it's she might need. but I just can't wrap my mind around that, any advice or comments would be nice.