[Possibility_girl]

My husband and i are working past an affair. the emotional ups and downs are finnaly getin less and less. this week though ihad an emotional week, just in my own head though. but then i was laying in bed and i couldnt stop thinking about 8 years ago, for a couple of weeks my husband was distant and one night after work when he came home he took a shower, he NEVER did that. we had sat down and i asked him what was going on and he told me that he was upset because i hadnt found a job yet. which was true. but now i am aware of the signs i wonder if that was an affari, but do i want to open up an 8 year old idea? if i asked im sure he would say no, even if he did he would probably lie, If he said yes, i would definatly leave him. part of me wants to just forget about it and keep working on the relationship and move past, but what if it was, that would make it twice he cheated on me.

Thanks for your advice

Lisa