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Old 09-29-2006, 08:17 PM
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Default Reclaim the night. Have you ever marched?

Reclaim the night is an international, peaceful march around ending mens violence against women and children. The march occurs all over the world, on the last Friday evening in October (this years it's Oct 27).
Have you ever marched? Why or why not?
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Old 09-30-2006, 05:15 AM
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I just saw a commercial for this last night, and they are doing a March in Sarasota (the neighboring town) at the end of October. It's called "Light the night"...I think it is the same thing you are talking about. I am going to go their website later and find out.
It sounds like it's for a really good cause!
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Old 09-30-2006, 01:18 PM
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Hey FM
yes, Light the Night is the same thing. Some places change the name to suit the particular place. I have seen the march occur on public transport and they've called it "Reclaim the Train".
Could you post the web link back here please so that I can have a look too.
I've marched in Reclaim the Night marches for years. I love to support the cause.

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Old 09-30-2006, 05:25 PM
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Even though Reclaim is usually only for women, I have marched as a supportive male for the last three years. Many men have been abused and also want to stop abuse. The marches are dwindling in numbers over the years. I have female friends who will not march because they have been unallowed to do so with their husbands and sons. This is 2006, marches need to include ALL people who want to stop sexual violence. Reclaim needs to be organised so that it reaches everybody. No good preaching to the converted. Ideas on how to do it differently and reach the people the message needs to reach? Without funding this may be difficult but surely there's a cost effective way to reach masses of people without excluding half the problem and the solution. I think you've said before Megan that if Men are part of the problem they are also part of the solution. Many men are threatened by the angry energy surrounding Reclaim the Night marches. What would you like me to do in an attempt to reach those men during October?
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Old 09-30-2006, 06:20 PM
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Hey EC
nice to have a male view on this. Thanks. I have struggled with the male issue for years. My personal views do not exactly fit the movement or the women's needs and wants. However, I also am very concerned at the dwindling number of supporters to the marches. Even in London the year I marched there, there were only around 600 people. I don't know what you can do EC because I still don't know what I can do to keep the essence of Reclaim alive. Maybe it has finally run its corse???? I think not, we just need to do it differently.
I take your point about the "angry energy". This is something I have heard for the previous 15 years. Women who have been abused by men are often very angry though (and righly so). Their view is that if men can't hack the anger then get lost.
What do women here think? Should men be allowed to walk in a Reclaim the Night march?
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Old 10-01-2006, 04:56 AM
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Originally Posted by imaginif
Hey FM
yes, Light the Night is the same thing. Some places change the name to suit the particular place. I have seen the march occur on public transport and they've called it "Reclaim the Train".
Could you post the web link back here please so that I can have a look too.
I've marched in Reclaim the Night marches for years. I love to support the cause.
I think (I haven't had the time to check it out yet) but I think if you go to TBO.Com (it's a local tv station) and go to their box about "thing's mentioned" and type in Light the Night...it should pull it all up!
As for men marching in this...I have no issue with that. I agree that marches should be for all who are interested.
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Old 10-01-2006, 04:46 PM
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I've just blogged a personal story of amazing survial and tenacity from a survivor of child sexual abuse. She wanted to do something meaningful for Sexual Violence Awareness Month and is interested in being a speaker at a Reclaim the Night march. Check out her story (I needed a tissue during the long interview where I briefed her about going public) : I was Abused by Five different Predators as a Child: Sophie's story.
If you are aware of a march in your area please do post details - even if it's information about finding out more like Floridamamma provided. Thanks for that FM
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Old 10-09-2006, 06:38 PM
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For Sexual Violence Awareness Month I have just completed two articles on Drink Spiking. The linked article supplied is the second one but it will lead you to both blogs. Just after I posted it, the below press release about tougher laws for drink spikers and electronic monitoring of sex offenders came through my inbox. Thought I'd share it here for comment. ARE THESE LAWS TOUGH ENOUGH???

Subject: NEW LAWS ON DRINK SPIKING AND ELECTRONIC MONITORING
Joint Statement:
Premier and Minister for Trade
The Honourable Peter Beattie
Minister for Police and Corrective Services
The Honourable Judy Spence
09/10/2006
NEW LAWS ON DRINK SPIKING AND ELECTRONIC MONITORING State Cabinet has given the green light to new laws which will deliver a multi-pronged increase in community safety.
Premier Peter Beattie and Police Minister Judy Spence have announced new laws to target drink spiking, and laws that will ensure certain sex offenders will be subject to electronic monitoring.
New laws will also ban jailed sex offenders from being granted leave of absence, except for funeral or medical leave.
"These new laws are about putting in place further measures to better protect the community," Mr Beattie said.
"During the election campaign we promised to create a specific indictable offence of drink spiking.
"Cabinet has approved this approach, which will see a maximum penalty of up to five years in jail for anyone caught trying to administer an illicit or stupefying substance - regardless of whether it is drunk or not.
"The new offence will apply to any substance which is likely to impair the consciousness or bodily functions of the victims.
"As well, police will not need any further criminal intent beyond drink spiking to have someone charged."
Mr Beattie said the new law would be introduced to parliament this week under the Criminal Code (Drink Spiking) and Other Acts Amendment Bill 2006.
He said he had promised to enact the legislation within the first 100 days of the government's fourth term.
Ms Spence said the same bill would also carry two further measures - to specify the type of offenders who will be subject to electronic monitoring, and to ban jailed sex offenders from leave, other than funeral or medical leave.
"These new laws will allow for any offender released under the Dangerous Prisoners (Sexual Offenders) Act 2003 to be subject to electronic monitoring," Ms Spence said.
"Next year we plan to introduce a system of electronic monitoring for child sex offenders and rapists after their release from prison," Ms Spence said.
"It is already the case that the existing Corrective Services Act 2006 will allow electronic tagging of sex offenders on parole and other offenders who have curfew conditions as part of their parole requirements.
"These new laws will allow for any offender released under the Dangerous Prisoners (Sexual Offenders) Act 2003 to be subject to electronic monitoring.
"This will capture offenders such as convicted killer and rapist Paul Vincent Sutherland, whose release by the Supreme Court has caused concerns for residents on the Gold Coast where he was allowed to live on a short-term basis.
"If we had our way, Sutherland would not have been released.
"However, if sex offenders are to be released into the community, then we want to ensure we can put them under the tightest supervision and surveillance possible which will include electronic monitoring as of next year.
"This will help us ensure dangerous offenders are at home when they are supposed to be.
"This could include keeping sex offenders at home in the hours immediately before school starts, after school closes for the day, or it may be a dusk to dawn curfew."
Ms Spence said the State Government had already approved $4 million over four years for electronic monitoring.
She said she will take a further detailed policy submission to Cabinet early next year, detailing the implementation of the scheme and including criteria for selecting sex offenders who will be subject to electronic monitoring.
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Old 10-20-2006, 08:49 AM
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Default One week until the march

If you want to send a supportive message to survivors of sexual violence or a request to Governments to do something about sexual violence, please see todays two blogs:


Send these blogs widely to family and friends all over the world. They will act as an electronic march.
Next Friday evening, Octiber 27th, is Reclaim the Night, or Take Back the Night as it is called in the U.S. Please help me reach as many people as possible.
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Old 10-21-2006, 05:51 PM
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Default Just where on earth are women safe from rape?

Nowhere is safe - no one is immune to sexual violence. Please, join the emarch against sexual violence. This abusive behavior while women are doing what they do, just cannot be tolerated.

Police urge vigilance after abduction attempts

Sunday, 22 October 2006. 05:44 (AEDT)Sunday, 22 October 2006. 04:44 (ACST)Sunday, 22 October 2006. 04:44 (AEST)Sunday, 22 October 2006. 05:44 (ACDT)Sunday, 22 October 2006. 02:44 (AWST) Queensland police are urging people to be vigilant following two attempted abductions on the Gold Coast yesterday.
The first victim, a 20-year-old woman, was finishing work at the Gold Coast Hospital when she was assaulted by a man who forced her into her car and began to drive off.
She escaped and called police.
About an hour later, a 45-year-old woman at the Helensvale Shopping Centre was also assaulted by a man, but he ran off when she got into her car and sounded the horn.
Police believe the same man is responsible for both abduction attempts, as the stolen car used in the first attempt was found at the shopping centre.
A 43-year-old man has since been arrested over the matter.
He has been charged with eight offences, including attempted rape and deprivation of liberty.
He was refused bail and will face Southport Magistrate's Court today.

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