[timmybaron]

My name is Tim I have looked for my Mom for over 18 years. On December 26, 2006 I FOUND HER!!!
It shocks me how much we are a like and how much of the same things we have went threw. Especially growing up. She and I are very the same in many ways.
We talk and e mail each other every other day or so and get along good.
The PROBLEM I am having is my Wife dont seem to understand the relationship that we are building. I do not leve my Wife or Children out of any conversations I have with my Mom or any thing. When I met my Mom on January 12, 2007 my Wife came with me to the restaurant, all went very well. BUT I am wanting to go spend a Saturday with my Mom just so her and I can talk and kind of put closer to the past. It would just be nice for my Mom and I to just simply sit and talk about all of the past 38 years, like what she did and what I did when I was a Child and how I grew up Etc. NOTHING MORE. But, my Wife makes it seem to me like I am having an afair or something?? I even believe she is quit jelous of my Mom and that is the last thing I wanted my Wife to feel like. I also would love to meet my Grandmother that Saturday as well, she is 79 years old and would love to meet me as well. My Grandmother would like to meet alone the first time, and that is fine with me, she has a little guilt and that is understandable.
I have truly loved my Mom since the day I could remember and I always had that empty feeling of not knowing her and now that feeling is gone!! THAT IS AWESOME!! Some people have a hard time understanding that. I am sure there are adopties that can relate with me.
I was raised very well by my adoptive Mom & Dad and could never replace them and am VERY GREATFUL for having them in my life.
My Wife is invloved in everything in my life and always will be
What have I done wrong ???????? Any suggestions ????
Tim
No longer searching 12/26/06