[rightangel]

My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years, and we rarely have sex. By rarely, I mean once a year! I am not attracted to him, and I find his weight gain repulsive. He was a virgin when we married, and I was not. I feel he doesn't have the emotional experience to handle an intimate relationship properly. I am turned off by his lack of confidence, which I feel is contributed to his lack of experience. I love him dearly, but I am worried that we will never be able to correct our sexual incompatibility problems. I am a sensual woman who needs to connect with a man sexually. My husband and I just don't have (and I don't think we really ever did have) chemistry. I don't want to live the rest of my life without ever having sex or feeling attracted to someone, but I don't want to be without my best friend either.