Shady sister
I had another username but forgot the password and everything. Anywho, I am still living at home with my parents, 23, and still trying to finish my pre reqs for nursing school. I recently failed one of my science classes and did not want my mother to know about this because of additional stress. She will take it as if I am not smart enough to finish college and force me to drop out and work a minimum wage job. I am retaking the science class with a much better instructor.
I told my sister several months ago that I do not want her to give me the mail that I have sent to her house, to home so my parents can see it. My mother goes through my mail, meddles in my business, and places a lot of stress on me. I asked her that w henever i get mail to just call me and i'll go pick it up
Instead handing it to my mother/father like she used to, or instead of of calling me like I asked, she started doing things like placing it in open places where my mother can find it (in my room on top of the bed).
(In the past she also gave my parents my refund checks knowing that they like to take my money and the arguments/fights that ensue. A few months ago I got money for a couple grand and my parents took away my house keys because i lied about the amount that I had, and that I was not going to give them the amount that they wanted from the refund check. She knows how greedy my parents are and experienced this first hand years ago when she used to live at home)
Anyway, my mother discovered the letter from my school notifying me that I am on academic probation (I am working on bring the grades up) but she was very dissappointed and is causing me so much stress. She is starting to feel that I need to drop out instead of trying to pursue nursing school.
I called my sister and asked her why did she do this? And she talked around in a bunch of circles justifying what she did. She said if I had my own house this wouldn't be a problem. I just hate how she throws it in my face that I still live at home. I wish I could have my own place but I don't have the money. I am trying to make it but finishing school. I feel that she envies me and in the past she even told my mother that she does too much for me, and never did enough for her when she was younger
Right now, I don't know what to do. I have no one to turn to. I am going to have to get a PO Box (I hope my school will send it there) but right now I dont feel like my sister and I will ever have a close relationship Ever.
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