[Nitwit]

The shower was great for only 4 people aside from myself and my mother showing up... and that's 25 invitations that went out. I got bunches of pictures... I'm just waiting on them to be emailed to me so I can save them.

The aftermath is my stupid ignoramous of a husband...

We went to Waffle House after the shower with my little brother and best friend. I saw a guy I had gone to school there and we were talking. In the middle of me talking to this guy dh decides to interupt me to show me something about his STUPID gun he just got. I told him to hang on a second and he thought I said yes babe... DO THEY EVEN SOUND THE SAME!!?? So he flips out on me and tells me to leave him alone. We were there for maybe 30 to 45 mins and he didn't say a single word. Once we were on our way home he decides it's time to tell me EXACTLY what he thinks about me...

I mentioned before about a friend of mine who got pregnant on purpose...

WELL... he said that I whine too much and I'm stupid and a ***** and I got pregnant on purpose... that it was just too big of a coincidence that she finds herself pregnant and four months later so do I... Then he procedes to tell me that he doesn't like not having sex and he thinks I'm cheating on him and I've been acting funny...

UM... HELLO... I'm 7 months pregnant, I'm 25lbs FATTER, I can't do anything without getting sick and therefore getting a freakin yeast infection, WHICH I HAVE, and it literally hurts to bd now... not to mention that oh I don't know 2 or 3 nights ago we did bd and after words I spotted BRIGHT red then last night we DIDN'T bd and I still started spotting... I'm stressed to the max bc of the stupid car, no money, and the fact that in 10 freaking weeks I'm going to be pushing a watermelon out a hole the size of a freaking coin, I don't know anything about baby babies and everyone ALL READY thinks I'm a horrible mother to June...

So... yeah I'm not in the mood to have sex with someone who is going to be completely insensitive to my plight and continue to tell me that having an epidural makes me a wuss and completely ignore his son...

We come home and he helps me bring the stuff in the house. As I'm putting the clothes on the changing table he tells me he's leaving... That was at 10:30pm at the time of writing this email it is 2:05AM and he's called once to say he was going to unlock a car and he'd be home, that call was at 12:30am.... btw he's a locksmith... so I don't know where my husband is and his mom, brother and sil, and dad are home and I'm holed up in the bedroom trying not to cry my eyes out so they don't get into it because they ALSO think I got pregnant on purpose...

HELLO PPL... I MISSED SOME PILLS!!!!! STUFF FREAKIN HAPPENS!!!!!!

I'm ready to call this whole thing off and go back to my mom's with this baby and NEVER speak to him again!!!! My feelings are hurt, I'm terrified, I didn't want to get pregnant, I don't really want to finish this out but I have to, and I hate my life...
I'll post the pics when I get them...

[kimchee67]

OMG! I'm so sorry you had a horrible day. I hope you feel better.

[QueenAngie]

Am certain that the people who did attend the baby shower
made it fun and special just for you & the baby!

Sending you a big warm hug and a cup of hot tea. (((Hugs)))

Try a nice warm shower, shampoo, and use your favorite bath & body shower soap. That seems to help me relax.

Are you taking medication for the yeast infection?
Eat some yogurt with those cultures in it too.

Can't wait to see the photos of the shower.

(((Hugs)))

[Alejandros Mommy]

Why not take a min vacation? Pack up your bags and leave him for a few weeks....tell him where you are going and that you need to spend some time with your mom before the baby comes. You can do some thinking while you are away and decide what to do.

[MommyDee]

I absolutely agree with Lessly... Go stay with your mom for a while. That's exactly where I'd be headed in your shoes. You need a break from him and some time to think, and if you leave for awhile he might actually realize that you do mean business.

[QueenAngie]

You know, maybe it would be a good idea for you to visit your mother and get some mothering yourself at this point.
A mini-vacation is a lovely idea. You could really relax and get
over that yeast infection.

BTW, if DH isn't getting treated for the yeast infection at the same time, prob he is the one giving it to you. He doesn't have to have any signs or symptoms to share the yeast with you back and forth.

Let us know what you decide.

[MissyChrissy]

(((HUGS))) That's terrible. I agree with the other ladies...go back to mom for a little while. Let him cool his jets. If he's going to be such a jerk to you at this time, then maybe he doesn't deserve you.

[poliscmjr]

I'm so glad you enjoyed your shower. It's not fare that your day had to be ruined with an argument w/dh.

I agree with the other ladies...maybe a break would do you both good.

[mommy2067]

Whitney...I 100% agree with what these lovely ladies have suggested....I think you know that already though...I am sending you extra (((((HUGS)))))).....Thinking about you...

[sjdub]

I agree with all the other ladies too - go stay with your mom for a few days. I am sorry to hear you had such a horrible day. Just take care of yourself and the baby right now. (((Hugs)))