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Old 06-01-2007, 05:32 AM
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Default The past couple of days

I haven't been online the past couple of days because I was yet again back in the hopsital. The shot of methatrexate did not work. My levels were still increasing, and I had to back to the er for another round of bloodowork, u/s and shot. This was all on Wednesday night. I went into the ER who was suppose to know I was coming so that at least the bloodwork could be started. But no one bothered to read my Docs orders that he sent down, because normally docs don't send orders to the ER and no one listen to me when I told them they had to be there. When I finally went back to the room, I had a horrible nurse (man nurse no sympathy). He really hurt taking my blood. The doc came in and talked to us and he saw how upset I was and he gave me a pill to calm me down. We were waiting for an u/s tech to come in as it was now after midnight to do the u/s. When I finally had that done it was determined my tubes were clear, but there was a nonvialbe fetus in my uterus. All I kept thinking was the shot I had last week killed my baby. The doc assured me that wasn't possible because my beta levels were still not high enough for how far along the baby was measuing (approx 7 weeks). He told me I would have to have an emergency d&c. I've heard women on here talk about it but I never dreamed I would be the next one to have one. They prepped me and I went to the OR, they tried to sedate me, and I fell asleep but my body was to restless so I had to go under general, where they have to intibate you. The doc said they had to hold down every part of my body. I was then in recovery and put in a room for a few hours to make sure I was ok. I got release around 9:00am and got to go home and go to bed Thursday morning.
This was nothing the doc had ever seen what I have been through with one person.

My body hurts all over from them holding me down. I feel ok where the d&c was done.
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Old 06-01-2007, 05:44 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss and hopefully you'll be pregnant real soon!! Good luck to you.
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Old 06-01-2007, 07:02 AM
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I'm sorry that this happened to you.
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Old 06-01-2007, 07:03 AM
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I am so sorry for all you have been through. I"m wishing you a speedy recovery.
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Old 06-01-2007, 08:11 AM
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Sweetie I am so sorry you went through this. I wish I could be there to give you a great big hug! PM me anytime you need to talk.
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Old 06-01-2007, 08:46 AM
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Oh hun I am so sorry you had to go through that on top of everything else. Please do take care of yourself. Give your body and your heart some time to recovery you have been through quite a lot. Hugs.
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Old 06-01-2007, 08:52 AM
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I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that...Thinking about you and sending you hugs...and prayers...Take care of yourself and rest.
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Old 06-01-2007, 09:07 AM
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My heart goes out to you. I wish emergency rooms were not so darn unkind when it comes to losing a pregnancy & baby. The perception of pregnancy loss to anyone who hasn't been through it seems to be more of a medical malfunction than an entire emotional and physical attachment that the mommy is forced to not only detach from, but to see her future disrupted as well.

Your post is a healing post for me. It takes me back to my own bad experience in the ER with my first pregnancy loss when I was only 19 years old. I am RH Negative, and the doctor sent orders for me to get a Rhogham shot after 72 hours through the ER following my pronounced miscarriage. I had left the hospital after the miscarriage (it was just too much), and when I went back to the ER the next day, they treated me very poorly and did not have the shot ready. I actually never got that shot.

But your post is healing to me because I can relate to your experience and it validates the experience of a mother losing a pregnancy very early on. My heart and prayers go out to you and I wish you a speedy physical recovery. Please PM if you would like to talk anytime.
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Old 06-01-2007, 03:37 PM
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what you had to go through is terrible, i am so sorry. what happened to you has brought tears to my eyes, and i didnt even have to experience that, so i can only imagine what you must be feeling. take care of yourself. (((hugs)))
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Old 06-01-2007, 05:01 PM
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So sorry for your lost!
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