[slygirrl]

but here goes anyway..

After having three kids you might think I know the answer to this but for whatever reason I don't.... Are you like more fertile after giving birth than you would be normally? Dh won't touch me... he's afraid we'll get pg again. (Yeah we could use condoms but it kind of creates issues for both of us, long story) As dumb as this is I've figured out HOW TO get pg just how NOT to, lol.... I used the rhythym method with all three and it obviously worked.... It's kind of driving me crazy (sounds like a guy thing huh?) it's been 6 weeks since we've done "business" (the last two weeks before my c-section he "felt weird" about doing anything so we didn't). I realize I'm not going to know my cycles till I start them again (I think AF is coming.. I kind of feel her coming on... I didn't miss her one bit for the last 9 months! ) So what's the deal? Am I any more fertile than normal? Condoms are going to be the only way to get "business" accomplished but I was still thinking about it....