[holtan99]

HELP! I'm 32 y.o. & in a relationship of 1-1/2 years w/a great guy. We are very much in love. He's got a 17 y.o. girl in Colorado (we're in Florida), and he had her when he was 18. He does NOT want any more. He's made that very clear. I'm stuck between a rock & hard place. I love him dearly but I'm not sure I want to give up my right to be a mother someday. I'm also not 100% I want to be a mom. I'm stuck in btw, but I'm scared that's b/c he's influenced me. Please help!

[sanzlady09]

I believe having a child is a lot responsabilities and is a personal choice. Maybe you should think about wether you want to be with a man who does not want any kids or even find out if you want kids. If you need to find someone who wants kids because you want kids you should go along and find someone new. Maybe you will be happy without a kid with your partner. not everyone have kids is a personal decission and there is nothing wrong with choosing not to.