[wanna be a young mother]

Since birth Nevy has been sleeping in a co-sleeper next to my bed (one side of the thing folds down and its level with the bed so it feels like the baby is in bed with you). I liked being able to check on her all the time and it made feeding easy to. Well the plus side to this arrangement is getting smaller. She sleeps through the night now. So I dont need to wake and feed her. She is also a light sleeper and will wake 2-4 times a night to whine a little and go back to bed(Dh is a heavy snorer so that could also be why she does that). Sometimes she will cry for the pacifier for about 20mins until I wake up and (search for it)give it to her. I am losing sleep! To top it all off Dh is up for work at about 7am. He makes so much noise that most mornings he will wake her up and she will start to cry. On his days off she will sleep until 8-10am b/c there is no noise.



So here is my problem. I want to put her in the crib(in her own room) but I know she is going to fight this. Everything I read about babies with Reflux says they become VERY attached to the person who takes care of them b/c of all the pain they are in. They are constantly looking for someone to comfort them. Any time she is tired the only person who can put her to sleep is me. Not even Dh can calm her down. I have a bad feeling I am going to get even less sleep trying to move her to her own room but it has to be done. If she wakes at night and I am not there I know she is going to start screaming! So what do I do? Keeping her in my room forever is not an option ! My mom said to sleep in her room on the blow up bed for a week until she gets used to it but I have a feeling its only going to make things worse b/c then she is going to be used to me sleeping with her in there and then when I try to leave and go back to my own room....we will end up with the same problem! I dont know what to do! Has anyone else had this problem? What did you do to make the transition as smooth as possible without traumatizing the baby in the process?