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Old 09-29-2007, 07:30 PM
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What is it like to lose a baby very very early?
I am concerned I may have but I am on birth control and I don't really know what is going on. I am frusterated with my body. I took a test 2 weeks ago and it was neg but I didn't tested since. I thought maybe I was pregnant...I donno maybe I am just being sensitive? SO I wanna know what is it like so I will quit questioning myself.
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Old 09-30-2007, 01:21 AM
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My doctor told me that a good portion of losses that occur early aren't even recognized as a loss. To the woman it appears to be a regular cycle or once in a while it might be a slightly heavier cycle. I don't know if that helped you or answered your question, but I hope it did.

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Old 09-30-2007, 08:58 AM
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It's weird. I have had small clots coming out but I dono maybe that is normal because of the type of birth control I am on.......?? I have had this bleeding/clotting for a week and I have serious cramping with it. Before that started I thought I was maybe pregnant because I was getting all the right symptoms except morning sickness but I never had that with my first so I donno? I am kinda starting to think I am crazy and thinking I am because I want my baby back so bad. I have gallstones and I always had thought what I was feeling when I was pregnant was the baby kicking but I still feel that and the doc said it's my gall bladder so Maybe I never felt him kick at all? It bothers me when I feel it though because everytime I feel it I think of him.
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Old 09-30-2007, 09:16 AM
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I wish I could describe my m/c for you. My words won't mean anything as mine wasn't "normal." Do you think you should call the doctor tomorrow?
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Old 09-30-2007, 03:16 PM
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I have an appointment on the 3rd so I am trying to wait till then but I am getting antsy I know it's just a few days...I just want to know whats going on and if what is going on is normal. I wanna hear that I am over reacting but if I'm not then I wanna know that too.
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Old 09-30-2007, 03:45 PM
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Hi there..I was just wondering what kind of BC you are on? Would it be Depo by any chance? I know for me...I was one of those women it just wasn't meant for...I used to get horrible migraines..(which when I looked back was linked to the Depo) and I used to bleed more times during the month than not...and I would pass various sized blood clots (tmi)usually quite big though...It would get so bad that I would soak through pads rapidly and was caught more than once having to tie my jacket/sweater whatever around my waist and rush home....I only stayed on it for about 3 injections...4 at most...when I decided that it was not right for my body and the doc agreed...
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Old 09-30-2007, 04:48 PM
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Yes it is depo and I already told my doc that there is no way I am getting another shot. I've only had two so far and I really think that it screws with my emotions on a HUGE level. I am like bi-polar on this stuff...I was always an emotional person but I think I was stable but I know I am not right on this stuff. I just donno what to think is the birth control and what is just me. It's pretty terrible because I am feeling like I don't even know myself anymore! I question everything and I can't seem to help myself!!
Thank you for your bit of info because although it may not be normal (i donno) at least I know that other people have had this problem and I will stop freaking out thinking I lost another one. I know I am on birth control and that makes you think I don't want to have a baby but that is the furthest thing from the truth. I want a baby so bad but we're trying so hard to wait a little longer. I donno how well it's gonna work out though because I have decided I don't want any type of birth control and that we're just gonna try to time it right so that we can wait till we decide we're all ready for this. ANYWAYS Thank you soooooooo much!!! I can't wait for this bleeding & clotting to stop and for this yucky stuff to be out of my system
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Old 09-30-2007, 05:20 PM
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When was your last injection? I am glad I could share my experience with you...I know several other women who had the same difficulties...I hope that it won't take long for it to be out of your system...Take a deep breath, maybe a nice long soak in the tub with a mug of tea and know that it will be okay!!! YOU will be okay!!!
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Old 10-01-2007, 01:32 PM
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Thank all of you! I donno what I would do with out this site
My last shot was July 26th.
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