Well said, Gina!

Our boys (4 and 2) have a TV in their bedroom because sometimes we want to watch something at the same time they want to watch something else. We didn't attach cable to it, but it does have DVD player and VCR. Their bedroom is also their playroom, and we have time limits on how much they watch there and what times of the day it's on.
Our 4yo is starting to like "older" cartoons (like Nickelodeon stuff) but I won't be buying those DVDs ever, so I'm not worried about that. They both still like younger stuff, like Thomas and Sagwa. Also, they have to tell me by name what they want to watch, they can't just point and grunt. And we didn't buy their TV...we won a 37" TV, and they got the 19" TV only after we moved to a bigger house.