To be honest, I bet she's pg.

Those things are incredibly painful. . .a UTI is when it gets to that point as are kidney stones and anything else. There's no way she could have them and not be in pain--and lots of it. People rush to the emergency room with kidney stones thinking it's appendicitis sometimes bc the pain is that bad. But yes, do tell her and send her to the doc. And if she thinks it's one of those things she should consider going to the ER.