I think bedtime depends on how your kids do in the morning. I have a son who is 11 and goes to bed at 10 but falls asleep about 11. He's fine in the morning. I also have a daughter who goes to bed at 10, and is really tough to wake up in the morning. Therefore, I am more concerned about her going to bed ontime compared to her brother. If you wanna see my stuff, i blog regularly at
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