What would you do to show your spouse you love them? Has it cost you not just in money, but in time or in other ways? Would you go and see a movie you didn't wnt to see if you knew they really did, or would you be involved in some activity just because they like it so you could be together? Or would you each do your own thing?

You might want to have a look at a couple of my ideas.
http://marriage.families.com/blog/wh...of-your-spouse