[CSangustiaST]

No longer relevant!

[regi26]

That a guy who was married before never wants to get married again is his own particular choice and is not at all obvious. What is obivous is that it is convenient for him to be with you since you are so in love and not particularly demanding. At 23 you don't need to lock yourself into a relationship that offers no particular future. Open yourself up to new opportunities. As long as you limit yourself to this guy, you won't be able to meet anyone who can offer you what you really want which is a commitment and a family of your own. Inform this guy of your decision. Sounds like he will be ok with that choice which should tell you something. Building a relationship should be based on mutual feelings, not just yours. And if one day he decides he does want to commit to you and offer you the relationship YOU want, and not the one that HE wants, he will let you know that as well.

[kajol123]

Be aware,

Be aware of the facts when dating a divorcee, if the has kids, you will never be a number one priority and you will always have to be on the backburner. I married a divorcee with 3 kids, and I am tired of being on the backbruner. Just remember you will never be the most important person in his life.

Kajol

[UberMom]

It is very important to evaluate your desire to be in a relationship with a man who is not yet divorced and says he just wants to have fun. At 23, you have a lot of life to experience ahead of you. Listen to what he says. I think there is a bit of an imbalance in your expectations and his. Men tend to say what they mean.

[Unwired]

Please bear with us, we are still in Asia and the keyboard is a '74pinto I think.
K, this is Jim, so this is the "boy" side of the equation.
You are 23, he is (only) 13 yrs ahead of you (I am 17 yrs older than my wife). She is such a babe and sooooo uber smart, but dont let her hear that.
Time, timing and then more time.... Unless you are clinically diagnosed to die soon there is NO RUSH.
Right now at this very second, I have about 8 friends (all millionaires) that would love to find out if you are stable.
Guys are JERKS and POS, but girls are too.
Take it a day at a time..... for you I would say take it a yr at a time.
More than likely, your guy works for my guy.

[CSangustiaST]

Thanks for your responses.... Not been on here for a while but didn't want it to go un-noted. ps... Stable?!? In which respect haha.