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Old 10-12-2009, 10:31 AM
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Unhappy Who is most likely the father of my baby?

I am 29 weeks pregnant and before I became pregnant, for about 3 weeks, I had cheated on my boyfriend with another guy. I confronted him about it and he knew why I did it and forgave me. He knows about what I am going to ask on here and doesn't really mind because he is still willing to take responsibility for this baby, but I need to know even though he doesn't mind.

Well My last period was on march 24th 2009 and my ovualtion date was supposed to be on april 10th. Me and my boyfriend had sex on April 9th at around 4 in the morning. He ejaculated inside me completely. The next night though, around 12 midnight, me and the other guy I had been dating were out and doing our own thing. One thing led to another and we had sex. I stopped about 15 minutes after because I felt really bad about what I was doing. I didnt let him finish at all, so he didnt ejaculate at anytime. Before I had sex with this other guy the night after I had sex with my boyfriend, I told my friend that I was worried about becoming pregnant because m y boyfriend ejaculated inside me. I even told this other guy the reason I couldnt continue was because I was worried about me being pregnant and thats why we stopped. I am worried about the 'potential' precum getting me pregnant although I strongly believe that its my boyfriend who got me pregnant because he fully ejaculated inside me and we had sex before I had with the other guy, and the other guy never ejaculated at all. What are the chances of this baby being my boyfriend's rather than the other guys?

Also, just to know who the babys father is, we decided to take a paternity test, but I am just trying to get an estimated answer of the chances of this baby being my boyfriends?
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Old 10-12-2009, 10:57 AM
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Welcome to the board!

I cannot do specific odds on anything like this.
It only takes one sperm to become pg.

Most likely baby belongs to the first man, but a paternity test would prove this.

Having said that, now is the time to take good care of yourself & your baby.
Eat a nutritious diet daily, drink milk, take your baby vitamins, exercise, drink water.
Avoid smoking or drugs.

Good luck for your future. We would all like to hear the outcome and are hoping for the best for you and baby!
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Old 10-13-2009, 05:23 AM
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Queen Angie is right. I teach human health and reproduction and there isn't any real way to determine with out a paternity test. 1 sperm is all it takes... and that could have come from either one.
Best wishes for your and your baby. Take care of your body and your baby.
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Old 10-14-2009, 06:13 PM
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The odds are definetely in favor of your boyfriend, but it is not totally impossible this other man did not father the child. rely on the paternity test.
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Old 10-15-2009, 03:20 AM
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There's a 50% chance it's your boyfriends. Like the others said it only take one sperm.
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