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Old 03-14-2008, 11:34 AM
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Default Why do you homeschool?

Our son is only 18 months and we're expecting #2 in September so our school days are still a few years off.

That being said . . . I've started playing with the idea of homeschooling our kids.

What are some of the reasons you've made this decision for your own families?
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Old 03-14-2008, 03:02 PM
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The public schools here stink. Really, really seriously stink. I would consider it educational neglect to put my children there. I think there are lot of other reasons that contributed to our decision but that's the biggest reason--I can get the job done better.
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Old 03-14-2008, 05:07 PM
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We are going to homeschool because...

We will know what our kids are being taught.
It will not be in direct opposition to our religious beliefs.
Homeschoolers are scoring higher on college entrance exams.
The kids learn at their own pace not that of the slowest in the class
As parents we are more focused on the specific learning needs of each child.
We can use the local school's resources from the gym to sports
Great neighborhood homeschooling group
and several more reasons...

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Old 03-14-2008, 07:12 PM
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We started homeschooling because I was so disgusted with the public schools in our district and we had no faith in them to adequately educate our children.

I have continued to homeschool because my children have grown closer and my family has grown stronger in the two and a half years that we have been homeschooling. If I wanted to, I could have enrolled my girls in private school by now and continued to homeschool only my son who has special needs. But I don't want to because I really love the way homeschooling has enriched our lives.
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Old 03-14-2008, 07:57 PM
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So loving. . .why are you considering homeschooling? I think that's the real question!
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Old 03-15-2008, 03:47 PM
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I have something else to add... My SIL is bogged down today dealing with a headlice epidemic that the kiddos brought home from school. Now that is something that I am super happy that homeschoolers don't have to worry about!
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Old 03-15-2008, 05:57 PM
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I guess I'm weighing the pros and cons. I've always been a huge believer that there's nothing wrong with our public schools that parental involvement can't overcome, but I think I may be changing my mind on that one.

We just joined a new small group at a church close to our house (we drive 28 miles each way to attend our church--we love it there and have no plans of leaving) and all but 1 other family homeschool. I've started to see benefits that I never had before and it has piqued my curiosity.

We just had our offer accepted for a new house Tuesday and one of the factors we considered were the schools, but now I don't know if our kids will attend there. We live in an upper middle class neighborhood and there are a lot of things that I see in our neighbors' kids that I don't want our kids to pick up (Coach purses in 2nd grade!? Hello!!).

I want to instill a strong sense of family and I know that is easier to do within our home where there is not the influence of friends and other outside distractions 6+ hours a day.

That being said, I don't want to totally "shelter" our kids. This is not the socialization argument, because I don't believe that homeschool kids are at a social disadvantage strictly because they're homeschooled. The world is full of ideas I don't agree with and don't want my kids to fall prey to, but I don't want to protect them from all of those influences (obviously I want to protect them from some). I want to be able to have the dialogue of what others are preaching and what we believe. I want my kids to be able to defend their ideas and their faith, knowing that eventually, in the "real world" they will need these skills. I'd like the wrestling to be done while they're under our roof and we can say "This is why we _____" or "This is why we don't _________"

I hope I am explaining myself clearly.
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Old 03-15-2008, 06:42 PM
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I have something else to add... My SIL is bogged down today dealing with a headlice epidemic that the kiddos brought home from school. Now that is something that I am super happy that homeschoolers don't have to worry about!
Um. . .I beg to differ. Head lice has no preference regarding publicly educated scalps, privately educated scalps or homeschooled scalps! They are quite happy to lay their eggs anywhere!
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Old 03-15-2008, 06:50 PM
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I want to homeschool but I'm concerned I am not smart enough?
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Old 03-15-2008, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by twinzplus3
Um. . .I beg to differ. Head lice has no preference regarding publicly educated scalps, privately educated scalps or homeschooled scalps! They are quite happy to lay their eggs anywhere!
You are right, of course, but in my personal experience homeschooled scalps just don't get as much exposure to head lice as do publicly schooled scalps.

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