Today i have woke up wanting to hold my little boy! T.J was born on Palm Sunday 05/04/09, He was fast asleep (looking so peaceful). I have still got to bury my little boy on 29/04/09. I don't want to carry on no more, not for the sake of my little gal (born 05), my partner or LIFE! why? I know some of yous know how I'm feeling, if there is anything ya could offer and tell me that could help ( as i don't want to let my family think i ain't coping well), i would very much appreciate it!
I am sooo sorry about your loss, I get what your feeling not completly but in a sence, i lost 2 babies last year both about 10 wks along and i know i didnt have those babies but i saw there little hearts beating i saw them on the ultrasound machine. Still to this day i think about them everytime i see a baby that would be about the age they would've been if only they had been able to stick. I dont want to make this all about me i just want you to know that you are not alone there are people here who you can talk to and that every person grieves differently and for different periods of time. It could take months or even years sometimes people dont get over it, but dont feel like you have to rush to get over it, it doesnt work that they and im sure they would understand if you told them that.
I hope this information helps,
remember your not alone
amanda
I am very sorry for you loss. I too also lost a baby very early on. No I never delivered or held it in my arms but I saw its heart beating and saw that life living in me. Its been 14 years and today I have two wonderful childen, but I still grieve that loss. My angel grew wings and left me. I pray that God will help you and I send a hug your way. May God give you peace in your heart. Joy comes in the morning.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Please, please, please do not try to hide the fact that you are hurting inside. Your family and friends NEED to know that you are not coping well so they can help and support you through this tough time.
Open up to them, that is why they are there.
You are going through a very difficult time, and there is no reason to down play the emotions. Feel free to cry, vent, scream. Let it out, trust me, it helps!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost my son, KJ, last August. I can tell you this....You, for sure, need to lean on your family and friends. Don't hide how you feel. I found, just by talking and telling people my story, that it happens to more people than you know. I've formed a special bond with 2 very special gals thru it. And also on this site. I got plenty of advice and in time my hurt has eased. I went thru alot, as we all do. I never thought I'd be able to function like a normal human. My hurt still stings, but with love and support I am back on track. I've even musterd up the courage to try again. I hope you find peace and comfort. Best advice I got was cry if you need to, scream, kick, yell (thanks 2girls)...whatever it takes. I found myself rolling around on my bed, a few days after, acting like a maniac (my hubby probably would have sent me to the looney bin had he saw me). But, it really helps! Peace be with you and in time it will come!
Although it is easy to say to just move on, the pain will always be there. But that's what makes us human. Nowhere to go but up from hereon out. Sorry for your loss
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you need to grieve your losss, cry scream yell do what ever you need to, don't lock it inside! We are always here if you need us but take some time adn grieve and heal form this best wishes
Why me? can anyone offer a hug? something?
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Really sorry for your loss!! Take good care!!
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