[Nitwit]

So Saturday night dh and I went to a local poolhall we used to work at. We stayed there until like midnight and I noticed my back was hurting a little bit. I thought okay it's a back ache. We came home and went to bed. I woke up Sunday morning and it still hurt... like it had woken me up a couple times at night but I didn't think anything of it. The pain then started to come in waves... about 5-10 mins apart... ... so... I called the dr around 8pm last night and she said to go to L&D. Dh had to pick up dsd so he dropped me off and got her. The plan was for him to come up there when my mil and fil came home from grocery shopping. So I'm laying up there in pain having actual contractions and the nurse checks my cervix and says it's soft and fingertip. So then they give me a terbutaline series and then checked me again... which was about 3 hours later than the first check... she thought I was maybe a 1... all in all they gave me indesin (SP) for the pain and then some ambien. I woke up this morning in the hospital. The doctor checked me and said 1cm, -2 and his head was down really low... like she could feel his head... so neways... now I'm on strict bedrest at leat until my appointment on wednesday and from there they'll decide whether to keep me on bedrest until I'm 34 weeks.. Right now I'm 32 weeks 3 days.. so here's the clincher.. dh says its my fault b/c I haven't been taking care of myself... fil says it's cuz I'm dehydrated and mil washed all dh's clothes and left mine in the hamper....I am on strict bedrest... no laundry no cleaning no dsd... bed pee bed shower bed eat bed... that's it ... but this is all my fault so I still have to do all the other stuff I'm not supposed to do.. I have half a mind to go to my moms for the duration of this pregnancy and maybe a little longer... I'm always so freaking stressed out here... YESTERDAY day DH LOCKED me OUT of the HOUSE in like 30F weather yesterday with no shoes on and a velor (SP) jacket on... talk about stress.